It’s not really okay with me. I’m really offended actually. First, you were going to help our friend RIGHT after work so I rush over to get our daughter, and yes I mean rush (I didn’t get off til ten after 5) when it is YOUR responsibility during the summertime. You didn’t say anything about not getting ahold of our friend earlier or going out while you waited. You said you would go home to let the dogs out. Second, it hurts my feelings that you have time to kill to go get a beer but not to grab a bite to eat WITH YOUR WIFE. Oh, wait, I asked you out to lunch today, so maybe you felt you had spent enough time with my ass already. I’m not a needy person, I rarely even ask you to lunch. You were crappy lunch company. I thought giving you another shot to be a worthwhile date was kind of cute… Shitty all around, really. I feel like you made arrangements to get out of family crap, but obviously you didn’t make arrangements to actually help our friend out til the last minute…. or he’d have been available. Things have been going so well. What are you trying to prove? I know you’re not helping him right now- I just talked to him and he’s home alone and sick… and you are ignoring me instead of actually listening and responding like you have been. What could be so worthwhile that its okay to start blowing me off again? It feels like shit. Great. Been a while since I got the old “when’s daddy gonna be home” line from our child. Hope it makes you feel as crappy as it makes me feel.
ONE night. You manage to fuck me up again in ONE NIGHT. Syrupy sweet for a few minutes after you get home, but no apology. You actually started dropping snide remarks about me to our child. In our bed I say, “you smell like booze, could you please make a point to do something about that before you fall asleep?” And you scoff and say no. I had to smell that shit all night. Good job you, being “more considerate of my feelings and needs”. Talk. Is. Fucking. Cheap. Though you made it a little over a week this time before acting like a self serving prick without any consideration or shame…
Wow, I just gave you credit for not being a jerk SOONER. There’s some food for thought.
